help..

Help..help..ada ke sesiapa yg ada info on how to raise anak lelaki yg umurnya nak masuk 4 thn and nakal..i don't know how to handle my son Afiq..he likes to cry, never listen to me, listen only when i have a cloth hanger in my hand..entahlah..i don't want to wallop him everytime he ignore what i said but that's the only way he will listen..i'm so confuse..stress..tension..please help me friends..need your advise..
At the moment, perangai dia makin menjadi2 as Afizal is not around..i wonder why he behave such when his ayah is not around..kalau ayah dia ada..dia tak la teruk sgt..huwaaa..i've fail to become a good mother and understanding too..:(

Welcome aboard my brother in-law

Congratulations to my sister Azura on her wedding. Alhamdulillah, the wedding was held successfully on the 25th Dec 2006..nasib Santa Claus tak dtg ngan rusa2nya..Welcome to the family Azdi bin Razlan. Take a good care of my sister..semoga ikatan ini berkekalan hingga akhir hayat..Amin..